"12 Rules for Being a Human Being"
by Marc
"Don’t try to be perfect. Just be an excellent example of being human. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
1. Growth requires pain. Be patient and tough, someday this
pain will be useful to you. Those with the strength to succeed in the
long run are the ones who lay a firm foundation of growth with the
bricks that life has thrown at them. So don’t be afraid to fall apart
for a little while. Because when it happens, the situation will open an
opportunity for you to grow and rebuild yourself into the brilliant
person you are capable of being.
2. You will learn as long as you live.There is no stage of
life that does not contain new lessons. As long as you live there will
be something more to learn. And as long as you follow your heart and
never stop learning, you’ll turn not older, but newer every day.
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3. There is a positive lesson in every life experience. Don’t
forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your
way. If you make a mistake that sets you back a little, or a business
deal or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means a new opportunity is
out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step
towards it.
4. True beauty lives under the skin. When you start to really
know someone, most of their physical characteristics vanish in your
mind. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize their scent, and
appreciate their wit. You see only the essence of the person, not the
shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with physical beauty. You can
lust after it, be infatuated by it, or want to own it. You can love it
with your eyes and your body for a little while, but not your heart in
the long-term. And that’s why, when you really connect with a person’s
inner self, most physical imperfections become irrelevant.
5. Only you know what you’re capable of. Unless someone can
look into the core of your heart, and see the degree of your passion, or
look into the depths of your soul and see the extent of your will, then
they have no business telling you what you can or cannot achieve.
Because while they may know the odds, they do not know YOU, and what
you’re capable of. That’s something only you know.
6. Your love creates your happiness. The happiness you feel is
in direct proportion to the love you give. When you love, you
subconsciously strive to become better than you are. When you strive to
become better than you are, everything around you becomes better too.
During your youth, love will be your teacher; in your middle age, love
will be your foundation; and in your old age, love will be your fondest
memories and your greatest delight.
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7. You earn respect by being respectful. Respect isn’t
something you can demand or manipulate by saying what you think people
want to hear. You earn respect by listening, acknowledging feelings and
treating others with the same respect you hope to get in return. Treat
everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not
because they are nice, but because you are.
8. Negativity poisons the soul. Don’t let needless drama and
negativity stop you from being the best you can be. Avoid the drama, and
focus on what truly matters. Life is insanely short and your time is
precious, so don’t waste your time on trivial matters. Let go of the
things that are weighing you down. As you unclutter your life, you will
slowly free yourself to answer the callings of your inner spirit.
9. Your health is your life. Regardless of the size and shape
of your body, it is the greatest tool you will ever own. Without it, you
wouldn’t be alive. How you take care of it or fail to take care of it
can make an enormous difference in the quality of your life. Exercise to
be fit, not skinny. Eat to nourish your body. To truly be your best,
you must give your body the fuel it needs. Toss the junk and fill your
kitchen with fresh, whole foods. Run, swim, bike, walk – sweat! Good
health is essential for having the energy, stamina and outlook to tackle
your goals and dreams.
10. Letting go is part of moving on to something better. You
will not get what you truly deserve if you’re too attached to the things
you’re supposed to let go of. Sometimes you love, and you struggle, and
you learn, and you move on. And that’s okay. You must be willing to let
go of the life you planned for so you can enjoy the life that is
waiting for you.
11. This moment is a gift. The truth is, your whole life has
been leading up to this moment. Think about that for a second. Every
single thing you’ve gone through in life, every high, every low, and
everything in between, has led you to this moment right now. This moment
is priceless, and it’s the only moment guaranteed to you. This moment
is your ‘life.’ Don’t miss it.
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12. Your choices design your life. You have a choice each and
every single day. Choose to appreciate what you have. Choose to make
time for yourself. Choose to do something that makes you smile. Choose
to be excited. Choose to laugh at your own silliness. Choose to spend
time with positive people. Choose to be persistent with your goals.
Choose to try again and again. Within your choices lie all the tools
and resources you need to design the life of your dreams, it’s just a
matter of choosing wisely."
